Some people think because you are into D/s sex that you must this dark son of a bitch all the time.
Bondage and forced orgasms are what defines you. That two hands around the neck and your face beating red while you shove your cock inside her as hard as you possibly can mean, that you are all anger and hatefucking.
Truth is. I’m a sucker for straight up romance.
Falling for a person. Getting to know them. Hearing their laugh. Hearing their sad stories. Just being closer, however, you can, to your mixed tape girl.
God, I love that. I love watching it in movies. I love seeing it happen to others. I love reading about it. And yeah, I loved living it, a couple times in my life.
That’s what makes the crazy sex so much more intense, I’d gather. The real intense passion with the foundation of real intense love.
No other moments in life compare. Period.
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