Aaaahhh curiosity killed the cat as they say. Now this is a bit embarrassing for i'm sure it's supposed to come naturally but ehm... how do women cum? I did already get aroused but it never lets out i just get the urge to pee. Is it supposed to feel as such or my bladder just decides to signal at that kind of moment? //help i'd rather avoid peeing on my future husband//
How Does A Woman Cum? What a wonderful question considering I just tested my hypotheses again and again and again.
Take a look at the diagram here and keep your eye out for the following: a) clitoris, b) G spot, c) cervix (top and bottom of it), d) anus, and e) urethra/urethral opening/bladder.
Urine. Before we dive into the female orgasm, first you should probably consider that urine is not really a big deal. Did you know that unless you have a UTI or Bladder Infection (i.e. blood in your urine), there are fewer bacteria in urine than in tap water? Would you care if somebody splashed tap water on you? No. People make way too much over pee. Chances are, you will at some point piss yourself and him if the sex is intense enough, so you probably should get over that hang up because, hey we are all adults. When you look at the diagram and see the location of the bladder and urethra and the proximity to the G spot, it’s kinda hard to not surmise that there is some pee when a woman ‘squirts’. Honestly, I really couldn’t care if it is all piss.
Anyways, moving on…
Orgasms. Typically there are 3 ways a woman “cums”. Clitoral, internal vaginal orgasms, and anal orgasms.
Clitoral Orgasm. How to make a woman cum this way? Spread the lips, lift the clit hood back, keep it wet, and rub circles. It will take a few minutes but this is easily the fastest and most simple way to make a girl cum and essentially change her opinion from “this sex was eh” to “hey, he made sure I came.” Does it make you feel like you will pee? I have heard it does and the fact that your pee hole (aka urethra opening) is right there makes sense that you have that sensation a bit, but the G spot orgasm – that one really makes more sense to “feel like you have to pee”.
Internal Orgasms. Basically, you have the G spot orgasm and the O and A spot orgasms. The G spot is shown above and is easier to pinpoint and reach than the O and A. The G-Spot is right on the underside of a woman if she is laying on her back and I am fingering her. A little “come here” for a while and she is mine or also an angle where my dick presses into her. The O Spot is the south end of the cervix on her back and the A-Spot is the north end – basically when fucking her deep.
Anal Orgasms. Very little is actually written about this but my theory is that the O Spot is what triggers this orgasm, hence why I personally think anal is better when she is on her back than doggy style. Makes sense if you look at the diagram and imagine a dick inside her ass.
Now the fun thing for a man who knows what the fuck he doing is to stimulate all zones at the same time. Yeah. I am an evil son-of-a-bitch. Imagine a cock in her ass, a jelly dildo in her pussy, a thumb on her clit and a finger wedged inside her stimulating her G spot – all at the same time – and one free hand to grab her neck and squeeze while I kiss the most amazing, beautiful, spectacular woman on the face of the earth with passion, love, and total adoration behind it all. And now you know why my girl has a hard time getting out of bed today. #orange-sky-forever