Advice on self confidence in the bedroom? When it comes to talking about sex I talk big, because I know I follow through with what I say. But when it really comes up to it, if I'm not already in the mood I'm slow to start mainly because I feel self conscious, particularly about my body and my kinks (even though I've been assured time and time again they share the same kinks and love my body) I don't want to come across as frigid, (when it's nervousness) Because that's the last thing I am.
I am going to assume you are a woman, although I hate making that guess. The reasons for my guess are: (a) most my followers are women so the chances are pretty good, (b) guys tend to never ask for advice (or directions, or anything really, because we know everything obviously), and © for some reason the word ‘frigid’ tends to not be used by guys in the context of sex, in my opinion, which is based solely on empirical evidence from the University of Bullshit I Just Made Up (U of BIJMU).
Either way, I will write it as if to a woman and a man.
Female Version. So, advice on having self-confidence? Yeah, I do. One of the sexiest things a woman can do is be confident in bed. To me. I’d rather look at a confident woman with mediocre looks than a boring dud who looks like a 10.
So think of it like this: you can be way sexier by how you behave than how you look. Smile, giggle, grin, make eye contact when you grab his cock and wink when you suck it.
To put yourself in the mood, you should ‘feel good about yourself’, so I suggest be clean. You can’t lose 50 lbs overnight, and not everyone needs to be all dolled up to feel good about themselves, but I suggest be shaved (if that is your thing), and definitely showered and clean.
Dude Version. Own her! Find out about her clit, G spot, A spot, O spot, and cervix and know it like the back of your hand. Be passionate and feed off of her responses as if they are fuel and you are a lit flame. Hands around the neck, hair pulling, and passionate eye contact, and make her yours. Fucking make her yours! Own her. #orange-sky-forever