Firstly I’d like to congratulation you on an outstanding blog.
I have a stunningly beautiful milf princess lady in my life, who everyone I know fancies and finds very sexy. However, she cannot acknowledge how attractive she is and I can never get her to believe just how beautiful she really is, which is such a shame. She thinks she is overweight and has a negative image of herself, but she is in awesome shape. How can I help her see this?
Keep telling her it – even if she can’t hear it right now. Make her feel it in her bones. Every action you do, make her know it.
Every person has some level of insecurities with their appearance and the few people who do not are downright obnoxious.
I also think you should have her read One Man’s Perspective on Body Types and Let’s Dispense with the Self Doubt , both which talk about body image. The first gives some good statistics but mainly it says – you are not alone – most people are overweight, so don’t feel so isolated about this. Secondly, even if you had that perfect body, it really wouldn’t matter in the end. Plenty of women who have killer bodies are absolute fucking idiots – just watch the Kardashians for 2 minutes and you’ll want to throw the remote at the TV.
The 2nd piece basically says – stop shitting on yourself. It’s fucking unattractive to hear you yammer on about how ugly you are when you are clearly not.
Just be you.