Q: I’m lucky that I am easily able to have multiple orgasms because I don’t believe in holding back. My question is should I be learning to control and edge to achieve “harder” orgasms?
A: Personally, I think edging enhances orgasms, male or female. In my experience, this is true, and it seems even more true with women.
I know this had always been a fun little tool at my disposal and it is hot, as a Dom, to hear that beg, then to say “No. Not yet.”, and the pouting, and the back and forth. Then finally, “Cum for me, Kitten.”
So, I would say, I don’t think you need to “hold back”; just stop when you are right there. Rub your clit until you are right there, then pull your hand away, and ask for permission.
The answer is always the fun part.