Confidence. If I had a nickel for every time I heard how women are attracted to a confident man, I’d have, ah, I guess I’d have a lot of nickels.
Often I hear that this is the single most important quality in a man. More than good looks. More than success. More that sense of humor.
Well if my penis could feed a nation.
The rarest quality I have found in women, and the most important one, at least in bed, coincidentally is confidence as well. Confidence in her sexiness. That and huge tits of course, but that goes without saying.
Seriously though. You know, owning it. Knowing you are sexy as fuck and running with it in every little last thing you do. Submissiveness? That’s really not that hard to find in a girl, thanks to Tumblr and 50 Shades. But a submissive confident one? That’s the Hope Diamond. A rare gem.
What is the difference, you may ask? I realize I’m being vague.
Well, let me paint a picture for you, kitty cat. The difference is subtle but means the world. The difference, in an example, is this:
The pretty little standard submissive woman drops to her knees. Pulls out her man’s dick. Sucks it. Let’s him facefuck her and finger her until she cums hard and when he wants to bind her up, she agrees. She enjoys it. Toys and rope and blindfolds. Check.
The confident one, she grabs that dick and stares right into his eyes when she slaps her own face with it. Sucks it with a smile and a wink. Says nasty shit to him. Keeps those eyes fixed. When they fuck it’s a battle. When he isn’t pounding her she slams her pussy right into him. When he cums, on her face, she smiles and looks right at him, winks again, let’s that cum sit there awhile while she spoons it, finger by finger, right into her mouth.
She is a fucking gem.
You know why? Simple.
The same reason you like getting flowers. Or love notes. Or a text just saying “I love you” in the middle of the day.
Because she makes him feel wanted.
Everyone, I don’t care who you are, deserves to feel wanted. Needs to feel wanted.
Laying on your back and cumming 5 times while tied up doesn’t make you anything special.
Laying there, because you would give everything in the world to stay there in this bliss for eternity, and looking him right in the eyes and letting him know the world would stop for you without him.