Well when you say “on a guy”, we all know you mean “in a guy”. ?
Inside our delicate, sensitive, soft, helpless little butts. How dare you? You must be sadistic and mean.
Just fucking with you. Lots of guys, especially Doms, tend to steer away from ass play on themselves and I am of the opinion they totally are missing out. Us guys have two ways to achieve an orgasm: (1) the ding dong orgasm (not the medical term), and (2) the prostate orgasm, aka the up-your-butt-with-a-coconut orgasm. They are totally different in how your body reacts. We all know the regular orgasm from the ding dong, so let’s just assume we learned that in sex ed.
So lets the learning begin!
But before I do, I will say this is what I think are the types of ass play that work “for me”, being a Dom, and not a switch, so I know being pegged is not one of the options for me to achieve a prostate orgasm.
But, before I even get into how to achieve a prostate orgasm, you wanted a “dos and dont’s for butt stuff”.
- Don’t: Ever do butt stuff without discussing it first. This goes for women too.
- Rim Jobs
- Blowjob with Prostate Massage
- Anal vibe (with blowjob/hand job)
Prostate Orgasm. Now with the prostate orgasm, expect it to take some time unless you are using a vibe and stroking him/giving him head. Also, there are two ways to access the prostate gland – internally (a nice way of saying up his ass), and externally, which is basically massaging his taint (the area between his anus and balls).
I think a vibe is the most surefire approach and the blowjob adds so much to it. If you don’t have a vibe helping, just be patient because it will take a lot longer and you both should be aware of that.