You know I get this question all the time and I just delete it normally, not because it is a creepy question – I am sure people are genuinely curious and rightfully so – I just prefer to keep my personal stuff private, in general.
I write a lot here and much of what is written are very personal and private views on intimacy, which I love to write about, yet some things are just off limits, such as family and relationships.
But this one time, I will part from my standard process and shed a little light for you and anyone else who is curious.
So you answer your first question – Yes, my significant other is well-aware of my writing and encourages it – especially in a novel sense, or Patreon, moreso than Tumblr per se. There is no money here and she sees my time as money, so it makes sense. I see Tumblr as a way to express which will make me a better author should I choose that route of a novel. She is my biggest cheerleader to see a book take form and every idea I have bounces off of her first. The hottest stuff I write – the most personal sexiest things – are written only for her eyes. Plus, she hears it in her ear so it is a lot hotter when it is followed up with something tangible.
She thinks it is hot that other women get off to it but doesn’t really care to participate here so don’t go and try and play detective because I can assure you that you will never figure it out. There are zero comments on my posts with her words on it. Too many people want to dive past what I give them sometimes and sometimes I need to just shut down that idea that I am available, because the blog’s draw includes the unspoken “what if” that is an important part of making this a sexy thing.
The way I write is meant to break past through and reach people in a personal space so they can scroll down, play, and have an orgasm to end their already stressful day. My goal is to make the day better for the readers. I love knowing people have had orgasms to my words and I think it is such an honor, but every once in awhile people may need a cold dose of reality when the start venturing into what is real, and lately a couple people have needed that, which just happens from time to time.
I’d prefer people just read and engage via Asks, Comments, Submissions, and Messages, but ultimately at the end of the day – see this as an interactive D/s erotica blog forum. The window into the mind, not the life, of a man.
The other question – is she the recipient of what I write about? The highly passionate stuff, yes. A lot of what I write is tongue-in-cheek idiocy too, so I wouldn’t say every post has her as the protagonist, but the lovey dovey and very sexy stuff – yes, it is her. I also write in generalities for “Miss Tumblr”, which to me is the general audience of women who like to hear that a man exists in this world who truly has his shit together and is passionate. Loves life, loves love, loves being a leader, and loves to fuck, very well, and her pleasure is the mechanism by how he measures his worth. Too many women have lost faith in all men and I find that to be pretty sad. There are lots of good men out there that are available – you just have to look. I am just not one of the available ones.
Thanks for the Ask.