First, Happy Father’s Day. Second, I have a question I know you will say “I can’t answer for him communicate” but he won’t talk to me about sex stuff. So give me your personal answer. I had an affair, but my husband doesn’t know, and I broke it off to work on things at home. What can I do sexually to show my appreciation?
That’s a tough one. I suspect you had an affair because things at home were not good to begin with. Now you feel guilty and realize your answer wasn’t in the other guy. Just move on. Don’t torture yourself in what you can’t take back. See if there is life in your marriage. Take your affair to the grave. You sexual efforts are not the answer I suspect though. Giving him anal or something isn’t gonna fix what was broken. Yeah – talk to him – about what is actually wrong and act on it or call it quits so he and you can find happiness elsewhere.