Thank you for your very thoughtful comments.
Yes, I happen to agree and know firsthand both sides of that coin. Astounding and arousing is exactly what can achieve, should both parties truly desire that. It can be heaven on earth. It can also be the inverse; a prison in your own mind.
Relationships are an amazing and beautiful gift from God that sometimes feel like a burden from the devil, however if nurtured properly, and a mutual need and desire for one another is there, Relationships are the epitome of the best this world has to offer.
I’ve always seen the key defining factor is best highlighted in the singular concept of reciprocation. Should you both equally want be there and satisfy each other in the same way, then you have found something very rare and unique in this world. Letting it slip away would be a blunder of epic proportions.
I personally have found this once in all my relationships going back the first ones as a kid; and I’ve had plenty, depending on how you look at it. I don’t believe you can find this twice. Maybe that is my Shakespearean tragedy version though.
Thank you again for your eloquent and thoughtful comment.