I gotta admit, I am confused about the wording of your question. On top of that, it is a complex topic so you may want to re-ask it, in case I missed the mark.
What I am gathering is that you and your boyfriend are new to DD/LG (or maybe you meant D/s), that he is the Dom and (this is where I get confused) he has assumed a Dom role, but you’d like a little more than he is giving on the dominance? Maybe rougher, more sadistic play, master/slave type, or maybe something in the relationship itself, like collaring or training? I am really not sure here on this part.
Because I am confused, I can only speak to what I do know – which is your question, “would it be wrong to ask for more dominance”?
This is kind of a touchy subject. By accepting him as your Dom, and him showing you that he already is taking this role seriously (i.e. reading, learning, and being responsible with you), I’d say – Yes, it is and you need to trust him in that he is guiding you as he believes your relationship and play should grow.
Does that mean you have no voice? Of course not. But by accepting him as the lead in your relationship, you are relinquishing control to him. That is a big part of being the submissive. If there is something that you’d like to try, sexually or in the relationship, I think it is fair to discuss it or indicate that you would show interest in it in the future, but you need to be prepared that he is the one that assumed this leadership role, and he may feel differently. I definitely would not ask him to be more dominant though. Asking your Dom to be more Dom is a major kick in the nuts.
That being said, I am still learning on all this too and typically steer clear of D/s advice for the simple fact that there is much I have to learn myself. There are times when I have to sit back, think long and hard, read a lot, and ask myself what is the right guidance and direction moving forward.
You may want to pose your question to a series of D/s blogs and see what their opinions are. Hope that helps.
Thanks for the Ask.