I think that word just kinda felt natural and right for some reason – at least with me. I don’t really see it elsewhere but I am sure it is used. I think it’s hot as hell – I would just use it with him in a casual way but bring it up that you think it is hot.
I guess my conversation would be like this…
1. Refer to him by a name you know he likes. Then another. Then strike up a conversation about “names” and mention you have a few more that you think are hot but want to see what he thinks. He will probably be in the right frame of mind to accept it.
2. Then tell him a few “i.e. Daddy, Papa, Sexy”.
3. Then use it in passing and conversations – my guess is that it will stick. It’s a hot fucking word that for some reason people don’t use often. I love being called Papa, probably almost as much as being called Daddy.
Thanks for the Ask,
-TRD (aka Papa)