If the guy doesn’t cover the bill on a date, he is a fuckin’ bum. Period.
Maybe I am old school but I will be damned if I ever have somebody buy me a meal that doesn’t have a penis. Fuck that. My boss can buy me a meal and a few rounds of beer, not a woman who I am trying to court.
How do you get it? Don’t ever offer to pay for shit. You are a lady and you deserve to be treated like one.
If he says “let’s split the bill”, you look at him like he is fucking loser (I know you know how to give a look – women have this shit down) and say “sorry, I am a lady. I don’t pay for dates.” If he insists, you pay your part, don’t give him a kiss, or another date.
Fuck him. He is a pussy anyways.