Hey, Its the pregnant one again. Just your opinion, if you was the scale roughness from 1-10 (10 being real rough) during early pregnancy how rough would you go on your kittens pink parts? I'm feeling I still want to be at a good 9, from a guys point of view is that acceptable?
It depends on a lot of things. For example, is she a high-risk for miscarriage? If so, I’d avoid rough sex altogether.
If everything is standard regarding risk, I’d still say that the 1-10 scale is more about each particular sub’s pain threshold than what the approach is. What I mean is, one girl a pinch of her nipple may be a 9 while another it may be a 3, so be mindful that your body is changing and that certain things, specifically your cervix, is not the same later in the pregnancy.
Early on I’d probably scale it back a little but not much, but I am not a hardcore into extreme pain either, so if you are, I’d probably be open with your doctor first.
I am going to defer to people who have been pregnant and had BDSM in their life during pregnancy to chime in…