Hey, thanks for the ask.
First, if you’d feel more comfortable, just send it in a submission and ask me to I edit it prior. I can send it back, then you can post it in your blog and I’ll reblog it or I can post it here as a submission. Many followers have English as a second language or just struggle with grammar, and I will be more than happy to promote your writings and edit them prior, so long as the content is in theme with the blog.
Second, well that’s more of a personal question that the woman can answer. I mean, I can see when two people on the surface seem to have a fucked up dynamic. Lots of guys, and girls for that matter, don’t appreciate their significant others and there are lots of signs of that, but that can be anything from not saying “I love you, beautiful” in the morning to just ignoring their efforts to provide a good life for you. Without details, I can’t really say there is a foolproof formula though.