Hey there @redbird1979 – hope today is treating you well and a “Thank You” and a wink to you.
To address your comment, you know I really don’t think I rock at advice, in my personal opinion – at least not all types of advice. I mean sure from the “just being a human being” perspective, I have a good heart and I try to place myself in people’s shoes, see their plight and their situation, and give them the best advice I can, but I look at some people who have been in the D/s world for decades, and I value their advice more than my own, when it comes to concepts like ownership, D/s dynamic in relationships, collaring, and Dd/lg.
On the flipside, there are “other blogs” out there from “other doms”, who are just complete total douchebags in how they respond to their Asks, with almost a disdain for their own followers. I don’t get it. People write in and say “I don’t mean to upset you but…”, and it is some normal question like “what is your opinion on spanking?”, and it is though people already anticipate a douchebag response from Mr On-His-Period.
It is not one blog per se, so don’t assume I am pointing fingers, but I see it often on these “d”om blogs and it just is sad because there are plenty of women out there trying to find their submissive souls and this is the message the are met with – that your opinion is shit – and they accept it because they want a “different kind of man” and they keep following and pining over some lame clown who is just a good, old-fashioned dickhead.