Hey Anon. Thanks for the great question.
What’s my take on sex with your pregnant partner?
Personally, I think sex with a pregnant woman who is carrying “your baby” is unbelievably hot. I think it sends one of the most loving messages that you can send to another person and you only have this window of time to send that message, so it is even more special.
Also, what an honor it is to have a woman carry your baby. I mean – really think about that for a second. How can you not see the attraction to a person giving that to you?
Sexually-speaking, to be honest, the first and second trimester, especially the second trimester, it is especially hot. The third trimester, he probably should be less “rough” down there, but overall normal, non-aggressive sex is plenty safe. I say this because I cannot imagine how I am now, doing that to a pregnant woman at full-term. I am far too rough and exploratory near the cervix – an OB/GYN would fucking hate me.
I am not into “prego” porn, by the way. I only think it is sexy when it is my bun in the oven. Maybe you can share this post with him and he will see things from this same perspective. At that time in your life, it is important not only for you but for your child that you do not carry any extra stresses – you should never feel “unattractive”.
When I see a pregnant woman at the store or something I find it beautiful, in a spiritual sense. I think it is normal for a guy to not be “turned on” by pregnant women in general until you think about it a little, and then it becomes attractive. Maybe he just needs to think about it a little from a different angle; he is not a bad guy for not being this way naturally – he just needs some perspective on it, to see the sacrifice you are making, and he should want to make you cum, rub your feet, and cook you non-GMO everything.