HI, @hiskinkysluttywhore thanks for the Ask. Well, you gave me a chance to listen to my favorite Pink Floyd song, so thanks for that.
Regarding “being numb”, most times I’ve heard this happen it is from excessively and aggressively dry-rubbing a clit, so my first recommendation is (a) keep it wet and (b) be smart about the tempo. It is, after all, delicate skin, even if being rough seems right, you still need to be smart about it. So I suggest your guy make sure that you are properly wet with thick saliva on your clit while he plays with it and does the rest of his business (i.e. fucking, fingering, etc).
I have never heard of a woman losing sensation in their clit from stimulating the G spot, so my piece of advice is: practice makes perfect. I think if you try some new approaches in speed, tempo, wetness, lube, angles he penetrates you (i.e. missionary vs doggy), you may find that sweet spot where the G and clit both are making you cum, which I like to call the “TRD Special”.
Remember…say no to dry rub.