@pretty-plussize-princess. Hey honey, thank you for following and the Ask. As always, I will try and be responsible with your situation in my reply.
First off, I am a little torn on believing this guy is a “Dom”, or a real man of any sort, in my opinion.
How it sounds to me is that he (a) talks flirtatiously about sex with you (like he is going to do X, Y, and Z with you), (b) has an opportunity and does nothing, making you wonder over and over, and then c) – the real part I have a problem with – he does not communicate with you about what his real intentions are.
It is perfectly OK if he doesn’t want to be sexual but still talk sexually. There are lots of good reasons to do this, such as getting to know somebody first, being responsible with you (this can be a sign of maturity in him), etc etc etc.
However – there is no excuse for making a woman wonder what your intentions are – plain and simple. He is no ‘dom’, even though I hate labels anyways. He is no man if he is just fucking with your head and doesn’t have the balls to say what his real intentions are.
Communication is key in every relationship or friendship. How do you deal with it? Ask him if he such a Dom, why doesn’t he man up and tell you what his intentions are. Playing head games is beta boy pussification 101.
PS. I love your avatar. One of my favorite movies ever. I know every word to that movie, I’ve seen it so many times. It holds some special memories of me and a little girl who is just growing up too fast. Now I am going to be singing “I’m malicious, mean and scary, my sneer could curdle dairy” all day long.