Hi there, I hope I express this clearly. If you knew and were assured that it wouldn’t interfere with anything in your life and the people in your life and your relationship with them. Could you take someone that was curious about exploring her submissive side and help guide them somehow? Is there any room for any capacity in something like this?
If you are asking if I personally would accept another sub in my life, the answer is No.
For me, giving my vulnerable side to a person is an “all or nothing” venture. If I gave that Dom side elsewhere, it would take away from the purity of the first bond, and it would not matter if she knew – I would know – and that would be enough for me to not be okay with it. I’d lose something very valuable to me.
I need to be able to say: “you are the most amazing woman I’ve ever known”, and to believe it myself. Or “you are not just a Good Girl, but the best.”
To me – it’s about being completely emotionally naked to her. I am just not built in a way to have two subs, but I know a lot of good doms that I read here can manage this in a very healthy way. I am just not one of them.