How do you come up with tasks? I would like to be able to help my dominant come up with things, but I have no clue how to help him with this. Or even where to point him to get suggestions. Any advice?
That’s his job, honey. I would feel very weird having my sub tell me what tasks to issue her. Seems the definition of topping from the bottom. Not sure you want to do that; it would definitely be counter to a standard D/s power exchange. If you have a different dynamic that is somewhat switchy outside the bedroom, then maybe that is fine for you. You would know better than I. I do know that he can do a google search for something like “Submissive Task Ideas” and he will get a million good suggestions.
But tasks need to come from the heart and they need to be thought about by him a bit to see if they are right for you specifically. Not all subs are able to do certain tasks and not all subs certain task are right for. This is kind of his job to find this out and apply his best judgment here.