I did talk to my Daddy about the communication issue like you suggested in my previous ask. Communication/texts improved a little bit. What can I do to limit needing reassurance and the doubt that creeps in? My feelings for my Daddy are strong and I really want a solid long term relationship with him. We see each other once a month due to living in different areas. I'm constantly trying to improve, learn and grow so he is proud of me. Yet some days I just feel so empty. Any advice?
I am sorry I don’t remember your Ask specifically. I get a lot of these Daddy/sub relationship questions, but I surmise my advice was to tell him that your concerns about not getting enough communication from him.
I don’t think “trying to improve” is necessarily the right mindset. Just try and be happy – that’s a lot more attractive to a person than being a good sub.
Now I’m going to catch shit over this but I really don’t care so whatever, but I have to be honest; when a person’s happiness is dependent on my attentiveness to them – it’s a real bummer. Codependency is just a drag.
Be happy and find happiness in other aspects of life and before you know it, people want to be around that. It’s sexy when a woman is independent, in every single way.
That’s what makes the D/s bond so amazing – not that she needs me to fill a void, but that she chooses to give me a reserved side of her, and I give her a reserved side of me, and we both grow closer by revealing what we never need to reveal elsewhere, but want to.