I have a question about breakup: how do I get over it? He's my first Daddy ever, and it was the most fucking magnificent thing while it lasted, and now it's gone I'm feeling like I'm just free falling. It's only been over a week, how do I deal with the next week, next month, the next morning, even? It's so hard. I can list a million things he's done me wrong by, but my mind is always stuck on those mornings when he brushed my hair lightly before I opened my mouth and took his cock in. Help.
How you get over it? Geez honey, you know you are asking the question that we all don’t know the answer to. One day, you will look back, and just realize, “hey, I am over it.” What you don’t do is go fuck some other guy or avoid dealing with your feelings. It might be good to develop a journal, so you can express.
I have a feeling this ‘first Daddy experience is part of it – it is the first time you have opened up so vulnerably, but the good thing is – there will be another, that is better, and more vulnerable, and more intense, and you will look back at this, think to yourself, “what a fool I was and what an idiot he was for allowing me to slip away.”
Hang in there. Life is good and will be better than it ever was with him. If he is the right one, he will come back.
Cinderella – one of my favorite bands as a kid, at Mono Lake, one of my favorite places in the world.