I have been dating this great guy for about 2 months now... but the last couple of weeks, he keeps getting soft during sex. Sometimes I/we can get it back up, but the other night we had to stop all together because nothing was working. I can’t help but think it's me or something I’m doing wrong. Thoughts/tips/tricks?
It’s not you. Trust me on that.
It happens to all guys and it’s just a shitty reality us men have to deal with. Sometimes our dicks don’t do what we want them to and your pussy can be as tight as a they get and he can’t get totally hard.
For me, it’s always after the 2nd or 3rd orgasm if we are nonstop fucking, if it happens, which thank god it has not happened in a long time. But trust me – it has nothing to do with you.
My tip: he should concentrate on foreplay. If you have 6-10 orgasms from oral and fingering, I doubt you’ll give a fuck if he stayed hard.
To be honest, foreplay should be the key, always. Wipe you out – then get down to fucking. That’s my philosophy.