Thank you for your compliment and sensible Ask. I emphasize.
I hear this “you’re not doing it right” nonsense all the time from these sad pathetic retards. First off – who is anyone to say what is right in your intimacy?
Only you and your partner get to determine that. Usually, this nonsense comes from people from multiple failed relationships unable to look inward at the obvious problem or in their early 20′s, both who I can’t really take seriously because clearly they don’t have the formula for shit. This unsolicited “I know the definition” garbage of how my or your intimacy is supposed to look is pretty pathetic, let alone creepy. I hear this crap from time to time from some lonely soul trying to ‘figure me out’. What a joke.
Trying to dictate when others can use words like Daddy or Kitten is another sign of these morons, only perpetuated by sad individuals with little to hang onto other that their self-identification as a Dom or sub. My respect for this “BDSM community” and these bloward artists is beyond low. I’d love to take a look behind the curtain at the rest of their lives. I’m sure it’s a handful of XBox clowns with a paycheck I’d cringe at or a bunch of emotional train wrecks subs with a stack of orange bottles they need to help them deal with shit.
Go refine your FetLife profile for the 100th time, dumb fuck, and stop telling us all how we are supposed to fuck, talk, or whatever. Get a life.