Well, I hope the advice I gave would resonate with her. I know for me, and how my brain works, reciprocation is a cornerstone and if somebody was not giving me the same level, I could look at it later on as time passed and recognize that I was “building the girl up” more than she really ever was. I know, because I’ve been there before, a long time ago.
Regarding from girl-to-girl and how to “get through the now” – I am (a) ill-equipped I am afraid and (b) once I convince myself that somebody was being fake to me, it is not hard to move on. It negates much of the purity in the past that was good, so it is less hard to move on from that.