I was just curious about how, I guess strict is maybe the right word, you are when it comes to wanting sex. If your kitten REALLY wasn’t feeling it but you are, would you still want her to comply? What about just plain ole sex? Does that exist in your dynamic? I am an Alpha sub and my Daddy can be flexible if I’m persuasive enough. I’m just curious about how other people’s dynamic works. Thanks!
Sorry for the delay; I’ve been on an airplane. And just in case you are wondering, the midwest is fucking cold. But at least the Mexican food is great. Oh, wait. Fuck.
So, you have a couple questions here.
First question: if she wasn’t feeling it, would I still comply? First of all, not complying would be against the law, but I think I know what you mean. Would I act like a toddler and pout until I got my way and guilt my woman into fucking me? I think you can see where I am going here.
Look – I honestly do not recall one time in my entire adult life that I have sought sex and been denied it by somebody that I was with – plain and simple. I realize that sounds totally ridiculous to some people, but there are two things at play here. One, I am not a moron. If my girl’s best friend just got run over by a bus, I’m not going to be all, “Hey Kitten. Wanna sneak off? These balls aren’t gonna empty themselves”.
Or if she is sick with a headache or a fever, I am not going to rub my dick up against her leg and give her the winky winky face. Side note: rubbing one’s dick up against a woman’s leg is obviously the most effective way to accomplish mating. I have yet to test my hypothesis in a bar or club environment, but I’ll get back to you on that; I’m sure it will go over fine. The restaurant bar at the Indianapolis Airport Marriott has gotta be hopping (and no, to the weirdo fan girl: I’m not actually staying there so don’t come try and get your tits signed).
Secondly though, I sure as fuck want to be wanted. If I am in a relationship where we (a) negotiate sex or (b) schedule sex – ugh – just fucking cage me already. Fuck that.
I want passion. I want to feel wanted. I make her feel wanted. Pure heavy-breathing, grab-her-by-the-neck-and-shove-her-up-against-the-kitchen-counter-and-rip-her-clothes-off-and-fuck-her-right-then-and-there-so-the-neighbors-at-the-Airbnb-might-see-then-push-her-down-and-watch-her-get-so-damn-proud-when-she-drains-the-cum-out-of-me-in-the-loudest-and-sexiest-blowjob-ever-in-my-fucking-life. Oh fuck. Did I say Airbnb? Oops.
Nothing mechanical whatsoever. I’m not saying “not wanting sex” at times is wrong. That is totally normal and human.
I think your dude just needs to be better at reading women. Fucking you – I don’t care if you are married – is not his right. People who see sex like that are missing out on the best part of sex, which is passion. Passion. You know, that stuff that just shot out of my brain in that rant above but made women reading it a little bit wetter now. All you need for a GIO sex life is Passion.
Well, that and, of course, fisting ?.