Well, first off, I am not with several women, so that kind of makes it a lot easier to understand your partner. I suppose if I were single and fucking a lot of different women I’d need to be a little more adept at all the variations of women’s bodies & have a less direct approach, trying many methods.
How do I know? Anybody who has ever given a woman the sexual experience of her lifetime doesn’t need to ask that question. That is just the honest truth. Whether she faked orgasms or not is inconsequential; I am not letting up when she has them anyways, if she does, but if you have ever wiped a woman out sexually – you just know.
When it is so damn good – she doesn’t even count them, remember them, or give a fuck. She is in another world.
I could survey the bed sheets, my soaking wet balls, count to the number of times she pushed me away and told me “ohhhh fuuuccckkk!!!! I’m cumming” in a way that showed me a sense of fear and euphoria.
You don’t fake subspace and sub drop. You don’t fake bruises. You don’t initiate conversations afterwards where I hear about it over and over that “no man before you did to my body what you do.”
Now I know I sound like I boast a lot. I can tell you a lot. I am very far from perfect as a man. No doubt. I have a million flaws. Tons. But making a woman have a sexual experience that is unforgettable is not one of them.
To be honest – I really don’t care if she has multiple orgasms or fakes them. What I care about is her experience. There is no faking the experience. There is no faking, her submission and her gratitude.
Her loyalty afterwards. That stuff you don’t fake. That stays with you both, forever. That is why “good, mind-blowing sex” is so important to me.
Because I need to stay with her – forever.
Every single time she touches her pussy I want her thinking of me.