To be honest, just because you are not getting feedback doesn’t mean that you are bad. Guys kind of suck at feedback in general – it is not a knock on guys, we just tend to be less vocal than women in bed, in general.
It doesn’t mean we don’t love it. In most cases, we do. I have had sex or blowjobs in the past I enjoyed just fine and I was just not very vocal. Only one girl in my life has ever really made me very vocal and squirm from head to the point I couldn’t handle it (yeah, pat yourself on the back orange-sky).
Still, it doesn’t mean that you are not good if you don’t elicit that response – all guys are different.
Personally, I think you should read the tips in the Ask and then maybe ask him. The cliffs notes version of the links above are:
- Saliva and lots of it.
- Persistent pressure on the shaft – keep it going the whole time.
- Pay attention to the balls
- Eye contact
- Deepthroating is a plus.