I'm new to D/s. Lately, I feel separated from my daddy when we don't communicate often. I believe communication is important and I need more consistent communication from my daddy. Am I asking too much? I want to strengthen our relationship. Any advice?
Well, I would say the first thing is that you should communicate to him “how important” it is to you, that you communicate more. He can’t read minds. Let him know the depth of your pain.
I know I personally cannot stand when she is in pain emotionally, even if it is something I didn’t do. I want to fix it. I want to make it better. It kills me when I can’t, or when its something I cannot change.
So what I am saying is this: you need to tell him, in detail. If he truly understands it hurts you to have very little communication and then just ignores it, well then you have to ask yourself a question – is this acceptable for you?
I am not siding with you over him, by the way, just to pander to the female audience get the clam factory clapping their hands like an Oprah episode. If he is communicating to you a perfectly reasonable amount and you are just hyper-needy, then that may be on you to try and have reasonable expectations.
But for some reason, I tend to think you are probably not being unreasonable. You gotta say something, toots.