No, hardly. The one woman I have sex with cums a lot. That is the just the honest truth, even though it sounds like I am bragging. I genuinely had a hard time bringing that about until I was about 30, even though sex was still very often and good, I just was missing the persistence and technique.
Tips? Personally, I would say,
- watch porn and see what the guys like Manuel Ferrara and Ryan Madison are doing. Many porn stars are not all that impressive in their foreplay, ironically, but some are studs. As much as I am torn over the James Deen deal, the guy eats pussy like no other. Just watch the ladies reactions. There is ‘porn star acting’ and then there is ‘there is no fucking way you can fake this’ kinda reaction. Manuel brings that out of all these girls. Constantly rubbing their clit when fucking them. Always doing two things.
- Also, be persistent – too often a guy switches gears and the orgasm is within reach and then you change it up and it’s back to square one. Just when you eat pussy, be aggressive, and stay at it and don’t stop until she buckles, and when you finger her, clit or G or both like I personally like, be aggressive, and stay at it, though keep her wet so it doesn’t hurt her, and stay at it until she buckles. Don’t even fucking bother with blowjobs or toys until you make her cum a few times the old fashioned way – just you and her. She should cum at least 3 or 4 times before you do. Force yourself not to cum until she does.
- Last listen to her queues. Her moans. Read her. Women are not that complicated. If you not eating her right, you will know. It isn’t all that complicated though. Fast. Rough. Wet. Spread back the lips back, expose the clit, fingers inside on her G with a ‘come here’ motion, and go to town like a fucking mad man. Enjoy yourself. I sure do. Don’t stop until the knees fold in. Then, just to be a dickhead, double-down, and force it again. Then again. That will really mindfuck her. And you are just getting started. Fingers haven’t even really come into play yet much.
Stay with it – no reward in sex is better than making a woman cum. A lot.
Ah fuck. Now I am horny. Cupcake doesn’t know what is about to hit her…