You may want to mentally prepare for this one, Kitten.
This one’s gonna rock you to your core.
Total submission on display. Try handing over your ability to resist and you will know the meaning of trust on a whole new level.
Complete and total trust in another person.
Armed with a safe word that you know is ironclad with me, but nonetheless, it is still a word so trust here is like no other moment.
That is the thing about bondage.
The one thing that really separates it from other forms of intimacy, be it D/s or not. It’s the one characteristic that is just different than everything else. Your inability to physically resist.
That you completely submit your physical being, and your will to resist and provide total and complete control and trust to another individual.
It’s the thing that people who say dumb shit like “whips and chains” when referring to BDSM don’t quite get and maybe never will. The vanilla folks who judge this as being some weirdo fetish shit.
What they don’t get is this: the level of trust is off the charts, and because the level of trust is off the charts, the intimacy is as well.
It has to be because you are handing your fear over to another person and giving them it all. Emotional and physical submission blending together in a beautiful occurrence of dominance and submission.
It’s also the same reason that newbie submissives need to be very selective and very close to the men you allow in your D/s world, especially with bondage.
I’ve always seen bondage as something more akin to cumming inside a woman. More intimate than almost anything else. To give away your body away like this – and to truly enjoy it – means that trust is already there. Going in, it should never be a question.
In my opinion, it should never be because you enjoy the kink; you need the trust first, and a stranger just doesn’t offer that. To me, this should be a major mental hurdle for a submissive.
Bound up. Blindfolded. Gagged.
Given – in the most given physical way.
When this happens, I see you for what you are.
I see you, for what you sacrifice.
You look so beautiful to me in this state.
Just so beautiful.
Beautiful, for your act of giving.
This is when I slap your pussy when you can’t see it coming to just remind you that I hold the power that you gifted me.
Then I kiss you to remind you I value it and am responsible with it. With this power you gave me.
Seeing you like this feels as though I’m standing in front of a Rembrandt at the Louvre.
God, you look like perfection.
You look so beautiful to me just in your act of giving.
You may want to mentally prepare for this one.