Made me think a little. Point taken and thank you for your input. I know this works well for some people and who knows, maybe it would for me. I am speaking from no practical experience in that area and just what my gut tells me about my desire for it, which is to not do it, but I respect people that it works for.
I do find it pretty amazing and beautiful that others can open this door and their relationship not be harmed, but even strengthened, when that bridge is crossed.