Holy crap! It finally happened! Well, my husband decided to put his hand around my throat during sex, without me saying anything about beforehand, and he was so surprised that I liked it. We talked and he said he didn’t realize I liked kinky stuff and I told him I did. I told him after 20 years, I’m open for a lot and it’s time to go for more mature sex. Lol! We’re not kids, and I’m not scared. It’s like a whole new world has opened up! We never had sex this often in our 20s, and I’ve had to start buying pregnancy tests, just-in-case (and I’m 39!) Haha! Sorry, if it’s TMI. Your heartfelt posts have helped me to see him differently; he has fantasies and desires that he may be nervous to share and I need to be just as nurturing for him as he is for me. Thank you for what you do! You can cut and paste this if you like, I just wanted to be able to type what I was thinking without worrying about length as I would in “ask.”
This is one of the best feelings I get in having this blog. Every once in a while, somebody finds personal value in the posts, that impacts them in a very real, positive way. I cannot stress how fucking good this made me feel. I am so happy for you. Knowing this follower a long time now, it makes it even better.