In my experience, it almost never was.
Most women I have ever said “I love you” to end up disappointing me anyways. A couple to the point it just sometimes makes you wonder, should I have ever thrown my heart at her in the first place?
But being older comes with an added benefit of wisdom.
And I get to know that answer now, on whether “the juice is worth the squeeze”, well before I ever ask it.
The answer, always, is Yes.
Yes, I should have. Yes, I will again.
Why? Because I value the squeeze.
Live inside your heart, always. No matter what. Are you gonna get hurt? Yeah, most definitely. But do it anyways cause the highs are so fucking worth it.
The “getting to know someone”.
The “being totally vulnerable for her”.
The all of it.
The sex is better for sure, but this post isn’t about sex. This is the Romantic side talking. The sex is just a part of the much bigger picture.
Love, that’s the end game. Undeniably, unconditional, never-gonna-end, never-gonna-stop-trying, shit you see in movies kinda Love.