Submitted as 2-part Ask from @charledewi Hi TRD, I wanted to start by telling I love to follow you and read you’re well-written posts. You write with the intention to touch your reader’s soul. Nice gift! You mentioned in a post that men like strong independent women who will give their submission to them. I truly believe that to be true, but I also learned during my road of submission that not every man (read most of the men) know how to handle a strong submissive woman. I can say that I have my act together. I know that if a man isn’t strong to handle my bratty side once on the loose it’s hard or nearly impossible to restrain the leash again unless the Alpha is way stronger than me. And I don’t mean by physical strength cause that really doesn’t do it for me. Now back to my ask; I’m just curious if you have tips for the men among your readers just to be prepared on strong submissive women out there… before wishing one.
Thanks for the ask and compliments.
You know it’s a pretty sad society we live in when I hear this complaint by women often, especially the Alpha types. The complaint being that men are threatened by them or the guy is too much of a pussy to take ownership over anything at all.
It’s fucking pathetic. My advice to the men is this:
Be a man.
I’m not talking about in bed either. Anyone can grab someone by the hair and fuck them. I hear this all the time – that their guys get threatened when their women earn a lot or take care of things or are not voiceless pushovers.
It’s a total sign of weakness in a man to not lead, in every aspect, and not be okay when his woman wants to lead or being strong. It’s just a grown man being totally insecure and needy. It is beta boy pussification and it is totally transparent to everyone who witnesses it. I know guys like this and it makes me want to punch them in the dick.
My tip to the guys? Stop being a pussy.
Man up, stand your ground, have a backbone, don’t start fights just so you can ‘prove you are a man’. Argue your point when you have to but stand your ground and you better be right, to begin with, but most importantly, lead by example. Just be a fucking man.