Well, thank you for the kind words but honestly I am kinda shocked even now that so often men are very out of touch with what women are hoping for, and I am not talking about D/s either. I am talking about what they hope for in their men.
I realize that I sound like a dick when I talk about men here, and the first inclination, would be to assume I do this in order to “look good” to the women.
But the truth is, I have a blog where over the years, countless women have expressed themselves to me, either through Asks or Messages, and explained what type of life they see in their counterpart men. The lack of passion, in bed, as dads, as providers, as everything. 99 out of 100 times, this is the story I hear. Some are good providers. Some are good dads. Most are really shitty in bed. Tons play video games or waste time in front of the TV or out with their buddies.
Each story is different, and I understand that this blog is an outlet that is appealing to women who have shitty men so the demographic is slightly off of women in general, but that doesn’t mean that vast majority of men are somehow unable to connect on a passionate level with their women.
It’s really bizarre to me, that this exists on such a pervasive scale. It is how I feel best as a man about myself, so I would think that would be the case elsewhere. For example, making a woman cum over and over and over, then getting up, earning, laughing, being a good dad, taking care of yardwork – all that comes with rewards about feeling good about yourself – so it is weird that so many guy opt for other things. I don’t know. I just don’t get it.
Thanks for the ask.