Hey TRD! less of an ask, more of a thank you— I carry this sense of being and needing too much from a former partner, and it can be hard for me to quiet that voice. But, if following your blog has taught me anything, it’s that owning your own awesome and not putting up with other garbage is important. So today, when the “too much-ness” started creeping in texting with a guy, I thought “fuck that guy,” blocked him, and made myself a fucking margarita. Damn if it isn’t the best-tasting margarita I’ve ever had.
TRD Response: You are welcome. I hate when I respond to a comment that would have been great to respond to immediately (like when you were knocking back Margaritas).
And by the way – Original Margaritas over Strawberry, no question.
I am happy for you that you found your strength; I don’t know the details but usually, when a girl is happy when she gives some dude the bird, I think an angel probably smiles in heaven.
Turn this shit up – drink some more – and flick your bean as much as you can withstand. When you are all done and remember that dude sucks and you Got One Less Problem without him.