Yeah, it was a weird one, to say the least, but I did see hints of him caring for her as a person, so I always try and give people the benefit of the doubt and assume they misspoke or I misinterpreted things a bit.
Hopefully, the security cam thing was not a literal thing but something a little more “I want to access my memory”, but I doubt it. I had a friend who pulled this shit with a girl back in college and showed it to some of our friends and all it did was make my other buddy tell him: “you know what? You fucking suck in bed, dude.” Eventually, he trashed the videotape because he actually had a conscience, or I never would have been friends with him in the first place.
In the end, that ask did have a lot of unhealthy views towards this girl and I think he needs to start fresh elsewhere and assess his perspective on how he approaches women in general.
That is the irony here – guys never really seem to see that all you have to do is show women a respect of their boundaries, genuinely care about them, and not make it all about yourself, and you will have plenty of options. This girl was unhappy before; had he handled her right from the onset, he’d probably be with her right now. She opened the door to him at one point but ran back to a dickhead because he didn’t handle her right. Hopefully, he learns from this for the next girl.
The guy showed some signs of having a heart, so I can just hope he is ironing out the kinks and is young, and one day will understand that you need to treat women a certain way if you really hope to keep them.