Don’t you hate the fucking format options in Asks? It sounds like nonsense. Let me rephrase…
- You have been with a guy for a few years.
- Only been inside his house once and only in foyer/kitchen
- No vacations together
- Only one weekend trip in 4 years together
- Date nights – restaurants far away
- Only met 2 friends (in 4 years)
- Never met his son
Look. I doubt you are “the only girl.” You need to communicate with him and tell him – you are leaving if he doesn’t give you these things. If he corrects his behaviour, great. If not. Fuck him.
Sorry. I am in the mood to crucify people today so my empathy is gone. I hope it works for you but you deserve to be loved by somebody who wants to love you. Reciprocation is a must.