Why can’t men just be straight up and tell women their intentions, instead of beating around the bush or making up excuses? Or just straight up ghosting? It’s ridiculous.
I cannot really take this question too seriously and provide an actual, real answer because (a) you are intentionally vague and (b) totally anonymous. Women ghost people too; women are deceptive with their intentions too. It’s not just guys.
It’s not a gender thing at all. It’s an asshole thing.