Would you please elaborate on the concept of an "alpha sub?" I've never heard that term before and it intrigues me. What would you say some characteristics of this type are? Have a great Saturday and thanks in advance!
?Well, I suppose like any other term in popular culture, the definition is probably a bit subjective. What I believe an Alpha Sub to be is an Alpha Woman, who happens to also be submissive. Now a lot of people will get all butthurt hearing words like “Alpha” and “Beta”, because they will cite some lame ass sociology studies or something that say it’s a false concept, counterproductive in society, blah blah blah.
The fact remains, there are movers and shakers in our world. There are natural leaders and there are people who are not. Each is equally valuable, first of all. I suggest doing a Meyers-Briggs evaluation to see where you may fall in that spectrum. I personally am an ENTJ, which is basically a Type A person. Some would call that an Alpha. Whatever I guess. I am weak at times too so I don’t put much stake in that.
But what I see an Alpha Sub to be is a woman who kicks ass by day, then is submissive in her sex, and usually these tendencies tend to come across in her aggressiveness in bed. I imagine Bonnie Rotten, the porn star, to be an Alpha Sub. Watch her. See how aggressive she is although she is submissive too. It’s extremely sexy to see although you can’t make much out of people “being submissive” when they get paid to fuck and act on camera, because it’s not really her letting go in the same sense two people in a relationship or mutual bond do.