Well, I don’t think it is a matter of right vs wrong. First and foremost – understand your girl. Talk to her. Listen. Maybe, she doesn’t want more than one. Maybe she is afraid of it. Maybe she never has had more than one. Maybe, she is not really having one and she doesn’t have the energy to fake it twice. That is not a dig on you as much as it is on her.
There is a lot to talk about with her.
Also, when you say “Climax”, are you referring to a clitoral or inner (G spot, anterior fornix (A Spot), or posterior fornix (O spot)), or even anal.
These feel totally different to women having them, and take different approaches to achieve them.
It’s a lot easier to make a woman cum multiple times from outer orgasms (clit) than inner, in most cases.
I tend to focus on being able to do both well, at the same time. That really is – above everything – what I seek to do to a woman’s body. It is the “rub your belly and pat your head” thing, but multiplied by a million.
You are trying to keep your cock in your woman’s ass, pummeling her, fingers inside her pussy with your right hand and your pointer finger at her G spot doing a “come here” and the tip of your middle finger back at her A spot doing the same motion, while a spit-soaked thumb from that same right hand is on her clit doing circles at a totally faster pace, and a left hand around her neck, squeezing blood and air, giving her a chance to breath, then slapping her tits from time to time.
You try harder and harder and harder to perfect your craft. Each time, a step closer to perfection, which will never happen but that is part of what is great. You get to keep getting better at it.
And she is so adorable – she thinks it doesn’t get any better. But you know yourself well. And you know…it only gets better.
It only gets more intense. With a true D/s emotional bond, and deep love, you get a level of closeness that is unfathomable and the sex and orgasms become a secondary part of the whole thing.
God I hate these diagrams. Can somebody with a graphics program for fucks sake make a non-creepy looking vagina cross-section with a clit, G spot, cervix, A spot (anterior fornix), O spot (posterior fornix), and anus. These ones just creep me out.
What, no graphic artists out there want to draw a woman’s innards? Ew. Innards has to be a top 10 worst word ever. ?