What do men think of women that will sleep with them on the first date?
Hey @redbird1979 , great question. Answer is less great, though. The real answer is that all guys are different on this one. I’ll answer for myself as well as what I see for most men.
My opinion? If I were single, it wouldn’t make as much of a difference to me as a lot of other qualities. I am grown up and would only date a grown up and if we had chemistry, I’d never look down at a woman for allowing us to connect at a physical level, based on a time frame.
Now, some caveats are – I would assume the girl was not a virgin, was not far younger than I, she was sober, knew what she wanted, and there was no “I am taking advantage of her” element. I could never feel like I stole something from a girl by having sex with somebody who is not thinking clearly.
Other guys? Many guys, especially younger ones though will not maintain respect for a woman who gives up sex on date number one, which is kind of stupid if you have chemistry, are adults, and are being smart and safe.
I would lose respect if she was not adamant about (a) her physical safety and (b) safe sex. There is only so much trust you can develop with somebody in a few hours, so if those were not at the forefront of her mind, I’d think less of her and just call her a Lyft.
So, to answer your question. It depends on the guy.