You wrote on a recent post, "Yes – it is possible for you to have 10 orgasms with no toys involved. Yes, you can cum five times from just oral. Yes, I can finger a dozen out of you, if I am so inclined. " I'm always so ashamed by the fact that I've never had any orgasms.. or if I have I can't tell or feel it. I was prescribed meds when I was 8 that impede orgasms.. it's called lexapro... is this unattractive to guys? I want to be like other girls who can have them and I feel worthless when cant.
I just read on the side effects of Lexapro and you are right, apparently this is one of the many of the side effects of it.
A couple things: first of all I’m a bit concerned about putting an 8 year old on Lexapro to begin with. Your brain chemistry is still forming at that age. I’d question whether or not that was the right parenting decision in the first place. Secondly, you can talk to your doctor and see if there is a replacement drug for anxiety disorder as an adult. I’m not advocating against anxiety medication by the way; the chemistry of the human mind is complex and it’s totally fine to use a drug, in my opinion, to correct any chemical imbalances that are needed.
To answer your questions directly, most likely you are not having orgasms or you’d probably know. Also, no – not being able to orgasm is not unattractive to most guys and it wouldn’t be unattractive to me, in and of itself. You shouldn’t feel worthless.
The sad part is most guys don’t care if the woman cums in the first place. For me, I’d be understanding and not care, so long as you enjoyed the experience, to begin with. Honestly, that is what I care about, not the orgasm itself. Orgasms are just like a milestone to prove she is getting there.
Besides, the majority of women don’t orgasm every time and plenty never do.
Hope that helps.