Yeah – sorry to be the one to break the news to you, but that whole “hard to find a man who is quite mentally stimulating” thing – that doesn’t really change just because they get older. Most guys are pretty much idiots no matter how long in the tooth they are; you’ll just get better at spotting the idiocy.
Smart girl to not rush into anything; you are young so you should have fun and be carefree for awhile. I once heard a good piece of advice: never settle down until you have lived entirely on your own for awhile. In your own place. Alone. You can’t really know yourself until you have. I’m not sure if that is true but it has some validity to it.
Nevertheless, thanks for the compliment, for following, and for the Ask.
Now pardon me – it’s 3am and it seems like a perfect time to masturbate.