I know you didn’t ask, but I find it incredibly attractive that you have maintained your virginity this long. Partially because you are untouched (that part is just sexy to think about the tabula rasa of your sexuality), but more so because you are not a pushover who succumbed to pressure when you probably felt it.
We all know guys are horny as fuck and plenty of people in your past would have gladly taken it, disappointed you, both in bed and life. That’s just the fact of life in young sex – the relationships, almost never, are permanent.
I cant really advise too much on this. All I can speak for are my experiences. Pretty much every sexual encounter before 25 could have never happened and I would not be any different for it today. Meaning, young sex, especially true with guys, is pretty non-formative; I came into my own in my 30s.
One word to the wise though – the math is not in your favor if when you do make that leap, you choose a guy in his early 20s, at least if you are hoping for that ‘explosion’ experience. Guys 25 or 30 and up, especially true in the D/s world, are just better, mainly because of experience, years, and maturity.